Lately, I've been involved in some discussion about relationship. Relationship between parents and sons/daughters, brothers and sisters, friends, co-workers, etc.
Keeping up a good relationship is not as easy as flipping hands. We need to give it some efforts.
For me, being a neutral person is actually the best position we can have. That way we can actually be friends to everyone. But, being on this position also will give us disadvantage, such as it will feel that we do not have a strong decision. Anyway, being neutral is also a decision. In the other hand, we cannot make everyone happy :)
For me, the most important relationship in the world is the relationship between us and God. This is a really private relationship that no one else can disturb. Having a good relationship with God is the role key to keep up our relationship with others, to appreciate others, to appreciate what we had, to appreciate what we have, to appreciate what we don't have. I'm actually not in the best position to say this, because I'm currently pretty far away from my God :) I need to rebuild it and recover it.
Then it comes to family. They are the very first people that had met us in the world. They are the one who makes us like we are now. Never ever sacrifice family matters for any other matters, they are our main priority.
Interesting relationship that I still need to figure out is the relationship between man and woman. Most of people wants to have girlfriend/boyfriend as soon as possible, so do I actually. But when I think about it further, I don't think having girlfriend is more beneficial. If something bad happens, I believe it will generate more disadvantages. Bad experiences I had before make me a better now, hopefully :) I feel that having lots of friends is soooo much better. No heartache, no anger, no worries, and many others. Better to propose the person you love directly, and be friends before.
The other relationship that is interesting is one between us and co-workers. In the place I work for, I don't have any issues with my co-workers. Actually we are a bunch of young people that work together since the first we're out of college. That's why I really feel the teamwork right here. I enjoy working with my friends. We had good and bad times together, faced troubles together.
Focus not on yourself. God gives you life to be light among others.
Build your relationship with God, be loyal to your family, be good to your friends.
That's what a relationship for me. What's yours?
Keeping up a good relationship is not as easy as flipping hands. We need to give it some efforts.
For me, being a neutral person is actually the best position we can have. That way we can actually be friends to everyone. But, being on this position also will give us disadvantage, such as it will feel that we do not have a strong decision. Anyway, being neutral is also a decision. In the other hand, we cannot make everyone happy :)
For me, the most important relationship in the world is the relationship between us and God. This is a really private relationship that no one else can disturb. Having a good relationship with God is the role key to keep up our relationship with others, to appreciate others, to appreciate what we had, to appreciate what we have, to appreciate what we don't have. I'm actually not in the best position to say this, because I'm currently pretty far away from my God :) I need to rebuild it and recover it.
Then it comes to family. They are the very first people that had met us in the world. They are the one who makes us like we are now. Never ever sacrifice family matters for any other matters, they are our main priority.
Interesting relationship that I still need to figure out is the relationship between man and woman. Most of people wants to have girlfriend/boyfriend as soon as possible, so do I actually. But when I think about it further, I don't think having girlfriend is more beneficial. If something bad happens, I believe it will generate more disadvantages. Bad experiences I had before make me a better now, hopefully :) I feel that having lots of friends is soooo much better. No heartache, no anger, no worries, and many others. Better to propose the person you love directly, and be friends before.
The other relationship that is interesting is one between us and co-workers. In the place I work for, I don't have any issues with my co-workers. Actually we are a bunch of young people that work together since the first we're out of college. That's why I really feel the teamwork right here. I enjoy working with my friends. We had good and bad times together, faced troubles together.
Focus not on yourself. God gives you life to be light among others.
Build your relationship with God, be loyal to your family, be good to your friends.
That's what a relationship for me. What's yours?
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